Tuesday, April 5, 2011

birthday present

My birthday is coming up is a few weeks - I'm asking for a dog.

I've wanted a dog all my life but could never have one because of my dads allergies followed by a long series of rental properties with "no animal" clauses.   So we finally have our own place with enough room for a four-legged furry friend and we were planning on getting one as soon as we moved.  But then we thought it might better to have a baby first  . . .so we have been waiting . . . and waiting.

So I am done waiting - I want a dog and I want one for my birthday.  Its not like I have to wait to conceive one and deliver one - there are thousands out there that need a good home - and I could be a good doggie owner.   I've been looking on local rescue websites and I've found some great dogs out there and showing my husband. I don't think he's got the hint yet . . .but I am working on it.

So I am hoping and finger crossing.  Maybe I can be a mom in the near future after all.  I know it sounds rash because this is the first time I have said something but we've actually been planning it out for a while and its time to make it happen.  Yes its a substitution, but its the only one I can think of that will actually act like a substitution.

7 comments:

  1. Our dog Tuffy was the BEST purchase we've ever made. Now, 4 years later, I don't know what we'd do without our Tuffaroo! I hope your dh gets the hint. ;) what kind of dog are you wanting?

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  2. Oh a dog is a wonderful idea for a birthday present! I hope your hubby can be convinced!

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  3. I hope your DH gets the hint! A dog would be an awesome idea!

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  4. It's a GREAT idea. I have two dogs and they get me through the roughest days. I'm so glad you're considering rescuing. There are lots of incredible pups out there who just need love : )

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  5. I am a new follower to your blog and just wanted to say that I think it is a great idea! I have a few dogs (the latest being my consolation prize for all the failed treatments) and I do not know how I could have gotten through all the failed treatments without them here. They keep me company, are there for me, always seem to know when I just need one of them to come over and snuggle up with me. Hope your DH gets the hint!

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  6. Good for you! Time to take back some control in your life...don't let infertility dictate what you can and can't do. Two years ago I bought an anti-family car...loved driving it. And so what...just traded it in for a different vehicle that is family friendly. But I was so happy to drive my nice fancy car when all my friends were driving mini-vans. And travel...to heck with schedules...IF treatments will revolve around our travel plans. Take care and hope you find just the right dog!

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  7. I actually think it's probably easier to get the dog first, then you can have them all trained (ha! well hopefully!) before adding a baby to the mix. (Granted, we've had our dogs for 4+ years and are just now adding a baby to the mix in another few weeks so I could be totally kidding myself.) But seriously, dogs are awesome. I have spent many an afternoon crying into their soft coats while they lick my face. After we lost our daughter, our dogs were my saving grace.

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